FROM ANXIETY TO FEARLESSNESSÂ
We have all been in that place! You know the one where it feels like you just want to hide away from the world and tuck yourself under your bed in the tightest bundle you can pull together.
And while you try to hold yourself together it feels like your stomach is like freshly made jelly that hasn’t been set yet and has a constant pouring of warm water just to keep everything all over the place.
There is no feeling like anxiety laced with this fear you don’t even understand or can pin point. But oh you feel it so well and it knows you so well.
A constant state of anxiety used to be my bread and butter in terms of emotions. I used to wake up with an impending sense of doom and uncertainty and go to sleep with its arms wrapped around me like the father I always needed. I never knew why but I understand it better now (that is for another day).
These days I wake up free and I feel more solid in myself but there are times when things will happen or I have to put my feelings out there and become vulnerable that the jelly belly comes back with a nice jug of hot water.
Where I used to want to hide I have learnt how to allow it space within me to exist and for it to teach me or give me some wisdom. I don’t run from it and I don’t disrespect it by wishing it away. I embrace it and it eventually does what it came to me for and leaves me with strengt I needed to be more fearless.
Everyone has the ability to be fearless and I started to think about what it meant for me.
There are situations where I will be so fearless it leaves people wishing they were as fearless as I am but there are some that make me feel like a 4 year old.
I realised following on from my blog post about self belief yesterday that in order to become fearless you must believe in yourself.
It seems self belief is becoming my newly appointed guardian and I am loving how much it touches every part of our lives.
Anxiety is a natural emotion and there will always be situations that will leave you feeling a little off but believing in yourself, respecting your emotions and standing by your existence will produce fearlessness in your being to trust yourself to march forward.
Understanding it, embracing it, listening to it and using whatever you learn from it makes you more fearless and more you.
No one can hold you back. No one can shut you up. No one can dictate your worth. No one can make you feel anything less than you desire. You choose, so choose you with warts, anxiety, fears and all and allow it all to make you into the beast of a person you know you are.
It’s all up to you. Don’t run from yourself, you are already fearless, you just have to see it.
Much love Sarah Martin xoxo